Let's Empower Virgin Daughters
Posted: Thu Jul 14 11:39
1. NAVIETY ISNT ENJOYABLE
Let's face it - the only time female virginity is valuable is when we are about to give it away (how ironic is that!). It is also the only exception to the universal rule of learning to fly before launch. First-timers are expected to display naivety and innocence and any girl who 'enjoys it too much' faces being labelled a slut. Yet how can you enjoy something you're inept at? Give her a silicon vibrator with a clit tickler and let her practise on herself first.
2. GIRLS SHOULD RULE PLAYGROUNDS
Girls have what boys want. In fact, boys want it so much, they will do ANYTHING to get it. That means the boys should be jumping through the girls' hoops. Yet (generations of women will tell you) boys rule. Imparting skills, knowledge and truth to girls will redistribute power in the playground and enable the new generation of women to shape a society that is respectful and genuine about requests for sex.
3. COACHING EMPOWERS
Parents are extraordinarily reluctant to educate their early adolescents about how to be good lovers. They pay for tennis training and music lessons yet they are unwilling to impart skills in what obsesses half the school and most of the breathing world. Why do mums and dads who love their daughters want them to be inept at what will be one of the most important rites of passage in her life? It seems to me that parents are so focussed on the 'when' that they have lost sight of their REAL duty of care, which is to give their girl every advantage possible in an experience which is traditionally scary, painful and recollected without fondness.
4. REDUCING ANXIETY
A girl armed with sex tips, waterproof makeup and a well-used clit tickler at her 'deflowering' is going to face the next day at school with a lot less anxiety than the one who was pressured into it at the high school disco after skulling too much cheap wine. Which girl do you want your daughter to be?
5. ZERO INVESTMENT = ZERO SELF ESTEEM
Don't perpetuate the devaluing of women - children see, children do - if you invest nothing in her sexuality she will consider it worthless and underestimate her value for the term of her natural life
on Sun Sep 04 04:30
Yup, that should defo do the trick!
Holly - whether we like it or not, teen sex should be about empowerment :)