The #1 Reason For Male Cheating
Posted: Wed Apr 11 16:40
Blue Balls. Blokes swear they exist (especially in the presence of sympathetic lovers) and women like to pretend they don't.
Given balls are a desirable commodity - no matter how we look at them - there is surprisingly little research into what makes these little critters feel so off-colour.
While some (laughable) ‘sexperts’ suggest they are caused by ‘disappointed sperm’, the most plausible reason also lends them their name - veins close to the surface of the skin looking 'blue' and full to the brim with blood.
These engorged blood vessels after sex without orgasm occur in both genders and is one of the reasons why Viagra can also be enjoyed by women.
Blue balls exist culturally, too – they are part of the expectation that men must always ejaculate with every sexual encounter and are particularly helpful whilst begging partners to uncross their legs.
I have interviewed hundreds of cheating men and almost ALL of them say they weren't getting enough at home. In most instances, that means regular vanilla sex, but sometimes unexplored fetishes can be the cruelest torture of all.
Now before the good spouse gets her (or his!) hackles up about not putting out (for whatever reason, or no reason at all) consider our appetite for food. Imagine having to eat identical quantities of the same foods as our partner for the term of our natural lives. Sexual urges are generated from the very same part of the brain!
So how do we maintain fidelity and still get our different appetites satiated without one person going hungry?
If you’ve got the bucks, the perfect compromise is sex workers. These professionals are good at their job, unlikely to throw tanties, won’t call during dinner (or ever, for that matter) and are not the marrying kind. They’re also unlikely to get attached, because the 'cuddle' hormone, Oxytocin, only releases with repeat sexual encounters. (The only stipulation would be a different person each time.)
Other options to prevent cheating and/or hunger pains might include more masturbation, porn, strip clubs, swinging, pictures of people in fluffy suits, dressing up like the Whore of Babylon or anything else that might assist a loved one to get their rocks off. Love is about meeting needs, not repressing urges.
Whatever you decide, it must be negotiated and unanimous. Spying and hissy fits are not going to stop a hungry person – but a well-satisfied appetite will.
on Wed Jun 27 02:49
An outstanding share! I have just forwarded this onto
a coworker who has been doing a little research on this.
And he in fact ordered me dinner due to the fact that I found it for him... lol. So let me reword this.... Thanks for the meal!
! But yeah, thanx for spending the time to discuss this topic here on your site.
Holly - Wow - thanks June - it's always good to hear from a well-satisfied reader (pun intended!)
Thnx for providing this resource on your website.
Holly - no problem :)