I'm a bestselling author, indignant blogger, international relationships guru and activist for a liberated society that enjoys pleasure. I have a background in psychology, journalism and public relations, and am currently working on my fourth book.

I am a tweeny feminist committed to helping women embrace female aspects beyond those sanctioned by society. Some of our best traits - lusty, slutty, mischevious, adventurous - are demonised when they should be rejoiced. An unshackled woman is so beautiful and strong she takes my breath away!

Within this website you will find erotica, unique ways to reignite romance, the new sexiquette, how to risk manage your marriage and media interviews including 60 Minutes, Larry King and Dr Phil. You can also purchase and download my books (Australian buyers only - internationally available at Amazon.com)

You will discover I believe people have as much right to have sex as they have a right not to have sex, but that doesn't mean I advocate cheating and/or lifetime sexual exclusivity - in fact, quite the reverse! These days, I promote negotiated fidelity, which means defining a couple's own unique sexual boundaries to risk manage their ongoing relationship and reduce the chances of divorce. It is part of the notion of having unconditioned love, which recognises our hardwired aspects, such as sexuality, chemistry, hormones, pathology and gender differences.

My first two books, Sugarbabe and Toyboy, make the 50 Shades triology seem like a walk in the park with the sugarplum fairy and are well-written real-life memoirs rather than just fiction. Hard copies are published by Random House Australia and Skyhorse Publishing New York and available through most good bookstores and Amazon.com.

Out NOW!

'The Velvet Pouch' - by Holly Hill

latest book release

I return with my third (and most confronting) book in the trilogy - a daring and controversial love story about what really happened when I let my boyfriend cheat in an open arrangement.

In the Velvet Pouch, Dino and I draw up a framework for sleeping with other people, including a 'tell all' clause after each and every encounter. Our spare room is used for sex with other 'play' partners, and we eventually stumble upon a secret underground sex world frequented by celebrities, high profilers and business people.

True life erotica like you've never experienced before! More on the Velvet Pouch here...